my self

In the end, it comes down to what I want, who I am, how I act, how I better myself. No one, no matter how much they talk and no matter how much they try, will be the person to change me. I am the controller of my own destiny, of my own identity, and my own confidence. I can judge others as much as I want, I can tell others what to do, but that means nothing to myself but a reflection of my self. I, personally, do not think it is very becoming to tell others what to do, what to think, how to act, because it is a reflection of discomfort with my own self and I am not uncomfortable with who I am, with what I want, and with how I act. I believe through my own behavior and through my own action, I can better myself. It is not about bettering others, because I cannot do that, but about bettering myself.

I am not perfect. No one is perfect. Why would I attempt to perfect another when I myself am imperfect? I will work towards bettering myself; starting with my debate/argument skills, because I know this is what I most have to work on, but change will not come immediately, it will take time; and I am okay with that. I will not worry about others, but myself, because in my life I am the one who matters the most right now and I am the one who has the power to positively change my life. I’ve been stuck in a rut for a while, but it is not going to pull me down; I will continue to focus on the positive, on what I potentially could want for today, tomorrow and the future, on who I am within the confines on my own perception, and on how I act and behave in the reality in which we live.

Damn the man and societal norms; With less negative judgement of others and more constructive judgement for our selves, we can become better people. At least, I know I can become a better person.